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Adrian Tiller, MFT

Office: 2120 Market St. (at Church)
San Francisco, CA 94114
Phone: (415) 408-3741
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Profession: Marriage and Family Therapist
Services: Psychotherapy/Counseling
Practice Description: Were you criticized a lot as a child?
Were your parents' needs more important than your own?
Did your mother or father demand love and affection—but gave little in return?

Narcissistic. Borderline. Self-absorbed. Toxic. Call them what you will, wounded parents create wounded children. And these children grow up without the basics of warmth and kindness, safety and stability.

In order to survive, we adapt and bend to the needs of our all-powerful parents. If that means we learn to parent our parent, that’s what we do. If we have to develop antennae to read the emotional climate and quickly shift to the rapidly changing moods in a chaotic home, so be it.

Our young hope (and need) goes something like this: If I do and say the right thing, if I support this wobbly person, if I give enough long enough, then one day . . . one day . . . s/he will be strong enough to adequately take care of me.

But what if that day never arrives? We can spend our entire lives looking for what we never got from our parents. We may attract spouses who are carbon copies of our caregivers. Expecting criticism, we perceive others’ innocent remarks as attacking or devaluing. Or maybe we’re never satisfied with the amount of attention, approval and reassurance we get.

Are your parents still running your life? Are you still trying to please them—even if they’re deceased? Are you trying to figure out who you are and what you want out of life? Are your relationships scattered with minefields?

Therapy is a way to find answers and chart a new course. Set limits and teach others how to treat you. To resolve the past, create goals and move forward.

I do more than just listen and say, “Um huh,” or “How does that make you feel?” My approach is pragmatic and straightforward. We work together to set goals and stay on task. I offer suggestions and feedback. And I’ve been doing this work for thirty years.

On the right side of this screen, you'll see links to several articles I've written. They will give you more information about me and how I work with clients.
Practice Specialties or Interests:

(Strengths are
in bold text)
Relationship Issues
Anxiety Disorders/Phobias
Gay/Lesbian Issues
Depression
Self-esteem
Spirituality
Age Specialties: Adolescents
Adults
Session Formats: Individual
Couples
Treatment Approaches: Cognitive/Cognitive-Behavioral
Psychodynamic
Education: Masters
University of Tennessee
License #: MFC25896
License State: California
Accepted Insurance: APS Healthcare
Blue Shield
Health Net
 

Adrian Tiller, MFT, Marriage and Family Therapist in San Francisco

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Novato, CA 94945
(415) 408-3741

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Years in Practice:  Over 20
Gender:  Male
Accepting New Clients:  Yes
Sliding Fee Scale:  Yes
Public Transportation:  Yes

Articles by Adrian are below
Coping with Self-Absorbed Parents

Did you hear me?
Couples Counseling

Self-esteem & Panic
10 Steps to Build Self-esteem
Learning to Manage Anxiety

Tips and Tooles
Dating 101 - for Gay Men

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Last Modified: 10/12/2016  


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